Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Josh Duggar, Kim Davis, and All Things Controversial



I’ll be the first to admit that I was devastated when public light was shed on Josh Duggar’s private sins involving the molestation of some of his sisters.  I grieved for his family, his wife, and the Church.  Sin always seems to be multiplied and magnified when a known Christian’s lack of perfection is revealed.
 However, I think it’s good for the world to see that we too make mistakes, occasionally lack good judgment, and are constantly in need of grace.  It hurt my heart to read of further criticism and scrutiny heaped upon the Duggar’s once the entire country was slammed with the ‘Ashley Madison’ leak.  It was estimated that over 400 pastors and ministry staff members would resign as a result of being found on this forsaken list. 
I get it, the Duggar’s have been splayed out on national television for years now and regardless of what happens off camera, the family is viewed as a well-rounded, Christian home. Yet for some reason “Christian” in our culture means that when you make a mistake, make someone uncomfortable, or stand for what you know to be right-you are immediately a target for criticism, judgment, and are inherently wrong. 
Over the past decade or so I have watched our nation shift from being one nation under God to a nation that desires anything but God.  When studying God’s characteristics in His Word, you will see that He is loving, but he is also just.  He is the Righteous Judge and the Redeemer.  He is the God who sees us and knows us.  Guys, God knows us and loves us anyway. 
There is redemption for Josh Duggar and there is redemption for all of us who fall short of His glory on a daily basis.  That’s right, we all mess up; Josh Duggar’s mistakes just so happened to be aired on national television…and I don’t know about you, but I’m thankful that my sins have been cast as far as the east is from the west. 
Aaron and Melissa Klein of Oregon caused quite the uproar when they refused to bake a wedding cake for a lesbian couple. As a result of the Klein’s stand, people spent the following days pondering if Jesus would bake the cake.  Well to be honest I do not know the answer to that.  We know that Jesus spent a good chunk of his time with the lowest of the low-including tax collectors, thieves, scandalous women, and liars.  BUT he never approved of their forbidden choices.
 What does this mean for Kim Davis?  Should she be a hero to the Christian world for taking a stand against what she knows is not God-ordained?  Should going against the law of the land or going against her own convictions be of greater value?  As the media blasts Davis and her refusal to sign off on gay marriage, I do not envy her predicament.  Davis could not justify condoning gay marriage even if it meant jail time and the potential loss of her job. 
What are we trying to prove here?  From a Biblical worldview, we can solidly say that homosexuality is wrong-that it is a sin.  Does that mean that Christians do not sin?  No, no, and no.  Pursing Christ is a process and none of us have ‘arrived’. All Christians, even the Duggar’s, the Klein’s, and Kim Davis are constantly in need of forgiveness and grace.  However, as believers we are instructed to ‘hate what is evil and cling to what is good’ and that is what I hope we do-no matter the cost.  


Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light; and where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love;
for it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Instrument of Thy Peace
St. Francis of Assisi